Is it OK to use intelligence and intention when you're looking for love or do you want to wait to be swept off your feet?
Attraction is about, well, attraction - definitely a mystery and may have nothing to do with finding stable love and compatibility. I recommend using The Chinese Zodiac to keep sight of who you are in the midst of all the excitement of attraction.
I'm attracted...but are we compatible? Your Chinese zodiac triangle of compatibility will help you discover your easiest matches for any kind of relationship - business or personal.
Find your animal sign, based on your birth year. Your sign makes a triangle of compatibility with 2 other signs. These are the folks that will "get" you - you'll share a way of approaching life that will make you - well, compatible.
Healthy, loving relationships first require that you know yourself. How do your respond to stress? Do you like conflict or avoid confrontation? Are you sociable or shy and prefer to stay at home? Goal oriented or easy going?
Attraction often results from the excitement of opposites, and while this can definitely work - well, you're opposite - I say white you say black - I say in you say out - lots of compromise is necessary for a happy existence.
So what do you think - can you use intelligence and intention to find compatibility and love or do you want to be swept off your feet? Will attraction and even love be enough in the face of personal nature, and habits and characteristics that are at odds with your own? Things start out great - then the honeymoon starts wearing off and wow - "you're not the person I thought you were!"
Your characteristics, desires, habits, are the plan and the map. To make a list of what you desire in another person is useless unless you have first taken inventory of yourself - deep soul searching inventory.
Be true to yourself when you're looking for compatibility in love. You are the starting point. The Chinese zodiac will be your love guide.
Start with your Chinese zodiac triangle of compatibility. I've written the Chinese Zodiac Love Guide based on what I have learned and experienced. It's a great place to start.
The Chinese believe that your character and nature is determined by your birth year. This is your starting place for understanding your positives and negatives.
It is possible that you will fall in love with someone who is not an easy fit - again the Chinese zodiac can help you understand this person and help you decide if the extra effort required will be worth it.
Are you going to wait to be swept off your feet or are you going to use intelligence and intention to attract compatibility and love? Does it have to be one without the other? Know yourself and make good decisions.
Make the Chinese Zodiac your love guide and you should be able to have it both ways.
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I'm Marilyn Nash and I was a LOVE DISASTER! I'm not a psychologist or astrologer. A friend suggested that I learn about the Chinese Zodiac and it gave me information about myself that helped me understand what I had been doing to sabatage my love life. The wise and ancient Chinese figured it out centuries ago. The Chinese Zodiac can be your Love Guide. You'll find help for compatibility and romance here:
http://www.ChineseZodiacLoveGuide.com
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